Exactly how to have an affair is a question that a lot of people have when the thought first crosses their minds. It’s one thing to think about it, but it’s another thing to actually go out and do it. You obviously don’t want to just throw it out in the open, so there are a few things that you need to keep in mind to keep yourself from getting caught!
First thing is to use an affair website. These sites were created to keep not only yourself but also those you are in contact with protected. The last thing anyone needs is someone running around and telling everyone that so and so is on a certain site. It’s because of the level of secrecy these sites maintain that having an affair is so easy.
The second thing you need to do is make sure you don’t do anything stupid! Yes, I know that may sound kind of cliche, but it’s true. Think about all the different ways that people get caught when they are trying to hide something. These are the exact same things that will get you caught if you’re not careful. What are some of these things?
The major one is obviously making sure you don’t come back with any evidence on you. This could include perfume, cologne, hair that’s not yours, lipstick smudges and a host of other things. You get the picture here, the typical things people look for when they think something is going on. These are easy to deal with, but here are a couple most people don’t think about.
Your phone could lead your spouse right to who ever it is you are having an affair with. There are services that will allow your spouse to backtrack the numbers that have been called or incoming calls and will also tell them the names, addresses and other information about every person that you have spoken with. So make sure you do not converse with your new partner from your own phone. Use a payphone or something else. Yes, can be a hassle, but it’s better to be smart than busted right?
Another thing that gets people caught a lot when they’re are marital affairs going on is a keystroke program. These programs as loaded onto your computer without you even know it and will then record everything you type into your computer. This means that if you are typing to your lover, your current spouse is going to be able to see everything that you type. This is a very fast way to get yourself caught. There are various programs that you can track your computer to make sure there is no software like this on there.
With just those two tips above, you stand a much better chance at pulling off casual affairs than most people will.